Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 Why are chicks willing to spend 4-5 times as much on the wedding then on the honeymoon? I could book a really nice 3 week honeymoon to Hawaii for under 5K, but Noooooooo that's too much. Yet she has no problem spending 15-20k ON ONE FOCKING DAY! And it's more like half a day at that. Her sister is spending 15K on her wedding and for the honeymoon they're going to sh!t ass Grand Rapids, MI. I mean WTF? Everyone always says they wished they eloped or took a better honeymoon. Instead of spending all this money on bullsh!t. I guess that's why I'm not doing much of the planing, because it would p!ss me off spending money on all the stupid worthless sh!t. And why the fock do we have to register for new dishes when we both have a perfectly good set. Why not get something cool, like straight up cash. I'm talkin' dolla' dolla' bills yall rant over Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mungwater 593 Posted March 28, 2006 Why are chicks willing to spend 4-5 times as much on the wedding then on the honeymoon? I could book a really nice 3 week honeymoon to Hawaii for under 5K, but Noooooooo that's too much. Yet she has no problem spending 15-20k ON ONE FOCKING DAY! And it's more like half a day at that. Her sister is spending 15K on her wedding and for the honeymoon they're going to sh!t ass Grand Rapids, MI. I mean WTF? Everyone always says they wished they eloped or took a better honeymoon. Instead of spending all this money on bullsh!t. I guess that's why I'm not doing much of the planing, because it would p!ss me off spending money on all the stupid worthless sh!t. And why the fock do we have to register for new dishes when we both have a perfectly good set. Why not get something cool, like straight up cash. I'm talkin' dolla' dolla' bills yall rant over You know when my brother and sister in law got married, it was the parents that pushing all that extra crap. It was hilarious, she kept telling them that she didn't care. Finally, one night at dinner, after she told them that she doesn't care her parents asked her what she wanted her reply was "As long as he shows up, I don't give a schit and the guests don't give a schit.." Its amazing how much emphasis some people put on it, for crying out loud, put that money towards a house if you don't have one yet. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,165 Posted March 28, 2006 If you want the real answer, it is because this is the biggest event she will ever put on for every family member and friend. She feels she is being judged by it. Aunt Nora from Gross Pointe doesn't care if you go to Hawaii. She cares that there is caviar shaped like a swan. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fricker66 92 Posted March 28, 2006 Remember. The wedding is her day, not yours. Let her have control of it. You'll be better off in the long run. Also, if you are fighting about money already, you're in for a very short marriage. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SUXBNME 1,438 Posted March 28, 2006 Why are chicks willing to spend 4-5 times as much on the wedding then on the honeymoon? I could book a really nice 3 week honeymoon to Hawaii for under 5K, but Noooooooo that's too much. Yet she has no problem spending 15-20k ON ONE FOCKING DAY! And it's more like half a day at that. Her sister is spending 15K on her wedding and for the honeymoon they're going to sh!t ass Grand Rapids, MI. I mean WTF? Everyone always says they wished they eloped or took a better honeymoon. Instead of spending all this money on bullsh!t. I guess that's why I'm not doing much of the planing, because it would p!ss me off spending money on all the stupid worthless sh!t. And why the fock do we have to register for new dishes when we both have a perfectly good set. Why not get something cool, like straight up cash. I'm talkin' dolla' dolla' bills yall rant over Once many moons ago I was thinking about proposing and I kind of made the same arguement to her. The only problem is I guess I went over the line when I asked her if I could make her an "engagement couch", instead of a ring...Makes sense, right? Something more usefull then a damn ring...Less $ too.. Needless to say she broke up with me not too long after that.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TimmySmith 2,782 Posted March 28, 2006 That surprises me, women are usually so logical. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slruc 0 Posted March 28, 2006 Its amazing how much emphasis some people put on it, for crying out loud, put that money towards a house if you don't have one yet. I agree with that. Same goes for the ring IMO. I don't think it needs to be so excessive, as some expect it to be, use ithe money towards a downpayment or payoff some of those loans or somthing. People are crazy (especially parents and MIL in specific) when it comes to wedding/family traditions. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
redtodd 7 Posted March 28, 2006 It is because, in general, most girls are not all that smart. Plain and simple. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hoytdwow 202 Posted March 28, 2006 People are crazy (especially parents and MIL in specific) when it comes to wedding/family traditions. yep. My MIL told my wife I was brainwashing her when I disagreed with some of the ideas for our wedding/reception. I wish we had eloped, and so does my wife. The debt is just not worth it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 Remember. The wedding is her day, not yours. Let her have control of it. You'll be better off in the long run. Also, if you are fighting about money already, you're in for a very short marriage. We're not fighting over money, because I really don't care. If that's what she wants she can have it. It just doesn't make any sense to me. Also I love how people can predict the longevity/strength of a marriage from one post. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brinett9 0 Posted March 28, 2006 It's a big time scam. Brides just beg and scream to get ass-raped by the wedding industry. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 yep. My MIL told my wife I was brainwashing her when I disagreed with some of the ideas for our wedding/reception. I wish we had eloped, and so does my wife. The debt is just not worth it. Luckily we're not financing any of it. So that's good. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
posty 2,486 Posted March 28, 2006 Remember. The wedding is her day, not yours. Let her have control of it. You'll be better off in the long run. Also, if you are fighting about money already, you're in for a very short marriage. Good posting... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brinett9 0 Posted March 28, 2006 That's why we got married in Vegas. Much less work to plan, a beautiful formal wedding at the top of the Stratosphere, and I pulled the whole thing off, including a week long honeymoon, for about $6000. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shovelheadt 68 Posted March 28, 2006 If you want the real answer, it is because this is the biggest event she will ever put on for every family member and friend. She feels she is being judged by it. Aunt Nora from Gross Pointe doesn't care if you go to Hawaii. She cares that there is caviar shaped like a swan. Perfect response. It's all about appearances. A lot of women are shallow like that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 Brides just beg and scream to get ass-raped by the wedding industry. Sounds hot If you want the real answer, it is because this is the biggest event she will ever put on for every family member and friend. She feels she is being judged by it. Aunt Nora from Gross Pointe doesn't care if you go to Hawaii. She cares that there is caviar shaped like a swan. We got it shaped like a heart! Everything is focking ROONED now. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
George Carlin 1 Posted March 28, 2006 Perfect response. It's all about appearances. A lot of women are shallow like that. I don't understand how a man could want to marry a woman that wants to spend that much on a wedding? Was it that hard to find a woman to marry you? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jeremy 0 Posted March 28, 2006 Perfect response. It's all about appearances. Yep, this is the correct answer, I believe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brinett9 0 Posted March 28, 2006 A woman will spend thousands to put a smile on her guests' faces. Most guys don't feel that way. In fact, we'd prolly pee on the guests if offered $100 to do so. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 I don't understand how a man could want to marry a woman that wants to spend that much on a wedding? Was it that hard to find a woman to marry you? Yes Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SmartassBoiler 0 Posted March 28, 2006 Open bar for the guests + delicious wedding cake = Win All the other stuff is nonsense. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
George Carlin 1 Posted March 28, 2006 A woman will spend thousands to put a smile on her guests' faces. Most guys don't feel that way. In fact, we'd prolly pee on the guests if offered $100 to do so. And drink it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,165 Posted March 28, 2006 If you want to tone down the cost a little and make it classy, cmh483902 has a used margarita fountain you could prolly buy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
George Carlin 1 Posted March 28, 2006 If you want to tone down the cost a little and make it classy, cmh483902 has a used margarita fountain you could prolly buy. And don't forget the JELLO SHOTS!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brinett9 0 Posted March 28, 2006 The cake is a perfect example. Take a really good cake, say a $25 model. Put the word "wedding" in front of it and it suddenly costs $375. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,165 Posted March 28, 2006 And don't forget the JELLO SHOTS!! Used jello shots? Also, he reported that the kegs all got tapped, so no leftover natty light I'm afraid. The cake is a perfect example. Take a really good cake, say a $25 model. Put the word "wedding" in front of it and it suddenly costs $375. A $25 really good cake will feed about 8 adults. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shovelheadt 68 Posted March 28, 2006 Yes Aren't you from the Detroit area? I ask, because my GF (who has her own bakery) has family in the Southgate area. She actually gets most of her supplies from a wedding/bakery store there called Margie's. It would be no problem for her to do something in that area. Let me know if you're interested at all. She'd cut you a deal. If your woman has her own shiat in mind, I completely understand. cakes@staroccasions.com Here's what the high society bakeries are charging around Indy. Base rate wedding cake – 2.25 per serving (white, yellow, chocolate, half/half) Add .25 per serving for special flavors (carrot, lemon poppy seed, red velvet, spice, devils) Cake on cake designs – 2.75 per serving Special side design - .25 per serving (polka dots, weave) Gumpaste flowers – 1.00 per serving 50.00 deposit on cake stands 40.00 delivery/setup fee Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 If your woman has her own shiat in mind, I completely understand. Thanks for the offer, but you guessed it. The hall said they would bake our cake which is included in the price BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooooooo. She has someone else in mind. So instead the hall is going to do some chocolate fountain thing Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
George Carlin 1 Posted March 28, 2006 Thanks for the offer, but you guessed it. The hall said they would bake our cake which is included in the price BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooooooo. She has someone else in mind. So instead the hall is going to do some chocolate fountain thing How does it feel to have no testes at such a young age? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shovelheadt 68 Posted March 28, 2006 Thanks for the offer, but you guessed it. The hall said they would bake our cake which is included in the price BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooooooo. She has someone else in mind. So instead the hall is going to do some chocolate fountain thing The name of this hall wouldn't have the word "Garden" in it would it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 How does it feel to have no testes at such a young age? Huh I didn't know you had to be a manly man to plan a wedding. The name of this hall wouldn't have the word "Garden" in it would it? Nope Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Black Label Society Posted March 28, 2006 My GF and I talked about a wedding, etc if we were to get engaged. She asked what I wanted for a wedding. I said an outdoor wedding near a lake, etc. Something quick and simple, and then roll out 20 kegs, get my buddies band to play and rock out all night long. She said 'if there's a beach there, I'm game for that'. I can see why women want all the glitz and glam of a nice wedding, but if I can get by without it, there's no way I'm passing that up. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,165 Posted March 28, 2006 Thanks for the offer, but you guessed it. The hall said they would bake our cake which is included in the price BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooooooo. She has someone else in mind. So instead the hall is going to do some chocolate fountain thing I've told this story before I think: my wife did virtually all of the wedding planning. To help me feel "involved", I was supposed to make the final decision on the cake. The final two were chocolate with raspberry, one mousse, the other jelly. I try them both and pick the jelly. The wife-to-be then talks for two minutes about why we should pick the other one. My response was, "sorry, I didn't realize that I was only supposed to pick the cake if it is the one you want." Lady from hotel: I was fockin with her and she knew it, so we laughed about it. Oh, and we had the mousse. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brinett9 0 Posted March 28, 2006 A $25 really good cake will feed about 8 adults. Yes, which is why most wedding cakes cost much more than $375. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 My GF and I talked about a wedding, etc if we were to get engaged.She asked what I wanted for a wedding. I said an outdoor wedding near a lake, etc. Something quick and simple, and then roll out 20 kegs, get my buddies band to play and rock out all night long. She said 'if there's a beach there, I'm game for that'. I can see why women want all the glitz and glam of a nice wedding, but if I can get by without it, there's no way I'm passing that up. This is excatly what I said. Of course she only wanted to know what I thought. I never had any say in the matter. She asks me what I think about things from time to time, but it doesn't really matter. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fricker66 92 Posted March 28, 2006 My wife planned the wedding. I stayed out of it. I planned the honeymoon. She stayed out of it. Both were lots of fun. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
George Carlin 1 Posted March 28, 2006 Huh I didn't know you had to be a manly man to plan a wedding.Nope Kid, planning a wedding has nothing to do with you having no sack. it's the fact you let her do whatever she wants with the wedding. My GF and I talked about a wedding, etc if we were to get engaged.She asked what I wanted for a wedding. I said an outdoor wedding near a lake, etc. Something quick and simple, and then roll out 20 kegs, get my buddies band to play and rock out all night long. She said 'if there's a beach there, I'm game for that'. I can see why women want all the glitz and glam of a nice wedding, but if I can get by without it, there's no way I'm passing that up. you met her what? 3 weeks ago? you pathetic loser. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cdub100 3,685 Posted March 28, 2006 Kid, planning a wedding has nothing to do with you having no sack. it's the fact you let her do whatever she wants with the wedding. you met her what? 3 weeks ago? you pathetic loser. Have you ever talked to a woman? This alias blows Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
